Playtime isn’t just for kids! As parents and carers, we often find ourselves engaged in play that doesn’t really excite us. In a recent Ask Robyn video, Robyn Papworth shared some valuable tips on making play fun for adults too, while still meeting kids where they’re at.

The Secret to Enjoyable Play

Robyn emphasizes that we all have different play preferences, and that’s completely normal. Just as children have unique ways they like to play, adults do too! Dr. Stuart Brown’s theory on play personalities explains that people engage in different types of play to meet their needs. Whether it’s exploring, creating, competing, or organizing, understanding your own play personality can help make play more enjoyable for you as a parent.

Combining Your Play Preferences with Your Kids’

The key to successful and fun play is combining what you enjoy with your child’s preferred play activities. Try to meet your kids where they’re at while incorporating elements of your own play style. For instance, if your child loves imaginative play but you prefer being active, create a game where you’re both acting out adventurous stories while moving around the backyard.

The ‘Aid Then Fade’ Technique

One of Robyn’s most helpful tips is the ‘Aid Then Fade’ approach. This involves joining your child in play initially to get them started, then gradually stepping back to encourage independent play. It’s essential for children to learn to entertain themselves, and giving them space to do so helps build their creativity and confidence.

Exploring Different Play Styles

Remember, play doesn’t have to look a certain way. Exploring, creating, crafting, cooking, and even organizing can be forms of play. If you’re into cooking, involve your child in simple tasks and make it a fun, hands-on experience. If your play personality leans towards games or puzzles, set up a family board game night or work on a large jigsaw together.

Involving Other Adults in Play

Children can also benefit from playing with other adults who have different play preferences. Whether it’s cooking with Nanna, playing board games with Mum, or doing puzzles with Dad, these interactions help them develop a well-rounded sense of fun and social skills.

Final Thoughts

Finding the balance between making play enjoyable for both you and your child can transform it from a chore into a cherished bonding experience. Figure out your play personality and lean into it – you deserve to have fun too!

Want More Tips?

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